I always knew, and probably worried, that proposing to my then girlfriend would mean I would have to write groom speeches, but it never actually dawned on me just  how important groom speeches were going to be! If I’m truthful I left it far too long before starting on ideas for the biggest day of my life and even longer before I started actually writing the thing!

My first piece of advice would be please don’t make the same mistakes I did. Plan as far ahead as possible if you can and make your life easier – if only a little!

When I first started thinking about groom speeches it seemed a really challenging and hard task to complete. Like it’s not enough that you have to stand up in front of all those people and make the vows only to have to stand up again and make a biog speech, when everyone is looking at you it can very nerve-wracking, Especially if you’re not used to public speaking!

As the big day got closer and closer I tried to think of a charming, inspirational and funny groom wedding speech and it just wasn’t possible. After many hours of trying and throwing away scraps of paper  what  I eventually decided to do was to just sit down by myself and write some of the thoughts that came into my head.

Now, you have to believe me when I say that there are better ways to plan groom speeches, but this was great for kick starting my ideas and getting something useful down on paper.

At first I found it difficult, but when I started using speech prompts and some guides I quickly started to jot down bits of information about me and my future bride. Where we first met, how long we’d been together, some of our best and most memorable moments – things like that. It really helped me to put into words a  story of our time together and everything we had been through to get where we are today.

At this stage I think it’s probably best not to worry too much about the order or the content of what you’re writing down, or even the funny wedding speech jokes. The biggest stumbling block to getting the perfect grooms wedding speech is never starting to put pen to paper! So by getting down my thoughts I was already over the first but largest hurdle for my groom speeches.

When it comes to making people happy, forgetting to thank someone is one thing – but saying the wrong thing in a groom speech will be an absolute disaster! Thankfully I had thought about this and was sure I would avoid it, so looked up a some really great tips to help you avoid this embarrassing situation.

Making Your Bride Happy

The absolute worst thing you could do is to talk about previous girlfriends. This may seem quite obvious but from what I’ve seen there are people that actually do this! Even if you’re doing it with the intention of talking your new wife up, if she’s anything like mine is she will not appreciate it one little bot – especially on the most important day of the rest of her life!

You should always speak favourably of your bride – at all times! Though it may seem funny to you, to add a small joke believe me this is not the right time or place for it. In my groom speech I stuck to what I knew my new wife wanted me to say, and it worked a treat!

Alcohol

Even if you are the most prepared you could possibly be for your groom speeches, and I’m sure that’ll be better than I was, your worst enemy could be alcohol. This has the potential to bring anyone down, alcohol can make you say the wrong thing when you least expect it. I was totally aware of this and decided to hold off much drinking – at least until the speech was over that is and I’m glad I did!

A Few Other Tips

One thing that made the thought of groom speeches kind of stressful to me was the fact I didn’t plan far enough ahead. Not planning ahead means being a lot less in control of what you are going to say. Luckily for you there are now plenty of sources to help online for those who want even a funny groom wedding speech that doesn’t offend anyone (very important).

Lastly I want to say no matter how well you say things, going on and on for far too long isn’t going to go down well with your party. Try to work on your speech so it doesn’t take an hour to finish!

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